Called to Boldness: A Sister, Wild Swans and Nettle

“Tender-handed stroke a nettle, And it stings you, for your pains:
Grasp it like a man of mettle, And it soft as silk remains.”
Aaron Hill’s Works, circa 1750.

This metaphorical phrase to grasp the nettle, to tackle a difficulty boldly, is one I only vaguely remember prior to several years ago when I had a painful encounter with nettle. Watering a plant in a hanging basket on my deck, I suddenly felt a pain as if stung by a bee. I looked at my hand and at the plant but could find no stinging insect. Upon a closer inspection I saw a small stem of a plant that was clearly not part of my flowering fuschia. I could only detect very small hair-like “brushes” growing along the stem. It didn’t look intimidating, but I didn’t want to test it.

The pain in my hand where I had been “stung” grew worse throughout the evening. It became red and somewhat swollen. An avid perenial gardener, I pulled out my plant books determined to learn what it was, soon declaring that it must be nettle!

Nettle. This rang a bell from long ago in my childhood, and memories slowly crept back.

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There are stories we read as children which have such a profound impact on us that they linger deep within. One such story which I had not thought about in decades, was about a selfless sister who gathered nettle from a graveyard by night, and with her bare hands knit it into magical shirts for her eleven beloved brothers who had been cast by a spell into wild swans. Furthermore, this young girl had to take a vow of silence until her task was complete, because to speak of what she must do would bring immediate death to her brothers. People did not understand why she gathered nettle at night and knit in silence with blistered hands, so they called her a witch and sentenced her to death by burning. Risking their own lives, the swan brothers swooped in to rescue their sister who continued to knit even as she was taken to execution. At the last minute, she flung the woven shirts to her brothers, the wild swans. They were restored to men, all but the arm of one, and she was finally free to speak. The Wild Swans was written by Hans Christian Andersen and first published in 1838.

Self-sacrificial love at any cost. Boldness.

God does not call us to be timid. He gives power through His Spirit to stand boldly against sin and oppression, and to share the burdens of our brothers and sisters in their time of need.

For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline. 2 Timothy 1:7

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Grace and Discipline

Godly discipline always involves grace. However, when we focus too much on grace, neglecting discipline, sin can go unchecked. That’s a slippery slope; one which often leads to misery and self-loathing.

Discipline and Grace are intermingled, working together. God’s laws are a blessing, given to protect us because He loves us. 1 John 5:3 Recently, someone shared with me the truth that if we will not self-discipline or receive godly discipline from others, we will be disciplined by God.

God has brought this point to the forefront of my mind lately as I have seen His will worked out in many areas of my life. I have also learned that there is a point when I must let go of my effort to correct rather than continue on a path that may destroy a relationship. I can choose to extend grace and simply give it over to God.

For the past three years I have pleaded and debated the reality of a loving God with someone who seemed to once love God but, after suffering heartache in life, grew angry, resentful and rebellious. I have prayed countless prayers.

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I believe that God will pursue us to the end. That He will bring us to our knees if we will not humble ourselves. I have prayed that this would happen sooner rather than later, and that there would be no missed opportunity for me to be used by God in this situation…that we will not run out of time whatever the cost. I continue to pray that the prideful spirit┬ábecomes broken and God is acknowledged, obeyed.

Submission to God’s will brings an abundance of blessing. God disciplines us out of love, just as a loving father disciplines his son, so that we may share in his holiness and live in peace. Hebrews 12:10 I am called Daughter of the King, blessed with Father’s relentless love.

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